"Start by changing the subjects of your daily conversations from the life you are living to the life you aspire to create. By speaking the language of the person you seek to become, you will soon find yourself immersed in the conversations that make you most come alive.
You'll sense the energy you emit attracting similar energy from others. Your conversations will lead to opportunities, which will become actions, which will become footprints for good." Adam Braun, The Promise of a Pencil: How an Ordinary Person Can Create Extraordinary Change (2014) www.AdamBraun.com/book
Talk isn't necessarily cheap.